{"id":8486,"date":"2025-03-11T01:51:43","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T06:51:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gallopingcow.net\/?p=8486"},"modified":"2025-03-11T01:57:16","modified_gmt":"2025-03-11T06:57:16","slug":"the-breakdown","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gallopingcow.net\/index.php\/2025\/03\/11\/the-breakdown\/","title":{"rendered":"The Breakdown"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I got up this morning to an empty house and checked on Muad&#8217;Dib. I didn&#8217;t have any messages about Stilgar, so I got showered and took the Pathfinder to visit Animal Control to see if they picked him up. In hindsight I guess I could have called again, but I was desperately hoping I&#8217;d get to bring him home. As soon as I got into the car, I saw how filthy it was from all of Eaddie&#8217;s junk in the passenger seat, center console, back seat, and trunk. There was crap everywhere, and the gas tank was empty to boot. I wasn&#8217;t even sure I&#8217;d make it to the shelter, so I turned around and went to Casey&#8217;s for some gas first. I redeemed a birthday donut and ate that in the parking lot, then made my way to the shelter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The two ladies that were working said they hadn&#8217;t picked up anything like Stilgar, but immediately knew of him when I mentioned that Nancy had called 911 the day before. They said they had a couple people call about them killing cats, and that one of them, presumably the man, threatened to shoot them if they came around again. I think I knew it all along when Muad&#8217;Dib showed up by himself, but it really sank in when I got home and found the &#8220;final warning&#8221; door tag they had just left on our front door before I drove over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I brought the leashes in from the car and had an absolute screaming fit before going outside to hold Muad&#8217;Dib. He hadn&#8217;t been eating, but he would take a few kibbles out of my hand if I offered them. We went out riding around to look for Stilgar, but didn&#8217;t hear a thing in the neighborhood. It was almost eerily quiet. We went all the way up Inglewood and visited the bank so I could pay Dad back for writing my sales tax check to the DMV. I realized I didn&#8217;t have my wallet once I got to the window, so we had to ride back home to get that, then made it back to the bank.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We waited longer the second time, but eventually got the cash and rode back to my parents&#8217; house to give the money to Dad. That was when I realized they shorted me by 95 cents. We got back home and I got Muad&#8217;Dib situated in the backyard. Then I changed clothes and decided to take some returns to The UPS Store and then wash my car before going back to the bank for a third time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The UPS Store visit was short and sweet since I took care of all the re-taping at home. The car wash was mostly out of soap, so it was a short wash. As I sprayed the side of my car, I noticed a fleck of white appear on the driver side rocker panel. Paint had actually flaked right off under relatively light pressure. I suspect they&#8217;ll try to deny it under warranty, but I feel like it&#8217;s worth pressing. Finally, I made it all the way back across town to get my missing 95 cents, and took Aaron for a ride in the new Model 3. I took him to our house since he had driven down Inglewood anyway. After I dropped him off, I went by the Neighborhood Market to get some hamburger meat to make tacos and clean up the veggies we still had at home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was unboxing Vine deliveries when Summer came home, and I was nearly shaking from the confrontation I knew we were about to have. Then she hit me with, &#8220;Why have you been ignoring me?&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;ve been exhausted and in a tremendous amount of pain from riding 25 miles looking for my dog.&#8221; &#8220;You&#8217;ve been ignoring me all week.&#8221; I trembled as I yelled at her to leave me alone, and had another screaming fit in the laundry room after she slammed the back door going out to see our one remaining dog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I eventually gathered myself enough to try and talk to her, but then after nearly eight years, she finally felt something strongly enough to yell at me. She was mad that &#8220;everything was her fault.&#8221; Ironically, that was precisely why I was mad as well. Of course she was wrong, but of course I wasn&#8217;t going to give her a list of all the stupid things she&#8217;s done on a daily basis to make my life more difficult at best, no matter how many times she asked me to name something. It was mutually assured destruction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I had to clean myself up and went back outside to hold Muad&#8217;Dib, but knocked on the door to tell Summer she could come out too. She had calmed down and wanted to go to the gym, but I told her I had stuff to make burritos and that I hadn&#8217;t eaten anything all day. Then I asked her the question that&#8217;s been buzzing in my head for weeks: Did she book a hotel in Indianapolis with car charging?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eaddie got home just as Summer left for the gym, and we talked for a while as I cooked. We both ate, and then I had to go back to the store to get some Theraflu for my parents. Everyone was pretty much off to bed by the time I got home for the night, and I was up late stewing in my head for the next few hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Broke the Bank<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got up this morning to an empty house and checked on Muad&#8217;Dib. 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