{"id":8654,"date":"2025-04-27T00:09:46","date_gmt":"2025-04-27T05:09:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gallopingcow.net\/?p=8654"},"modified":"2025-04-27T21:51:40","modified_gmt":"2025-04-28T02:51:40","slug":"i-wanna-go-home-i-wanna-go-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gallopingcow.net\/index.php\/2025\/04\/27\/i-wanna-go-home-i-wanna-go-home\/","title":{"rendered":"I Wanna Go Home, I Wanna Go Home"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I woke up early today so I could accompany Summer to her 5k in Dover. The weather was really nice, so it would be a good day to take Muad&#8217;Dib and the Onewheel, which would help me pass the time. She met up with Kell, one of her employees from Splash, for his first race. I took Muad&#8217;Dib around the building on a leash before testing him without, and I think getting some energy burned off helped because he stuck by my side the rest of the day without any trouble. I ran into Amber while we were there, which was crazy after talking about her just weeks ago. I guess she&#8217;s the president of the River Valley Runners group since James has seemingly made it his sole purpose in life to run. We caught up for a little bit, and then Muad&#8217;Dib and I started to ride the course to find Summer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being able to ride around with Muad&#8217;Dib made the experience awesome, but I wasn&#8217;t sure how the runners or organizers might have felt about me riding around even if I kept some distance. It seemed like a positive experience for him though, so hopefully we can keep doing that in the future. He got to meet a bunch of people who were really excited to pet him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/pw\/AP1GczOEQ-WzXiSTRNo78g-HdgGypSRmOJPnXzrq7x6nKlScb2803Y8ZO5NEbJW81O7rJGkohF4WzN0aueHhHPS6tdlccY-bFmV18VAE-hhzT8PrGR5XnBOwmerTDq8fTRfoAOJZ0efx2egXKgIEkCNfvzkl3w=w1638-h1233-s-no-gm?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kell finished in first place for his age division and Summer made second in hers, but they only awarded first place. They took some pictures and then Summer and I headed home to drop Muad&#8217;Dib off before going to Stoby&#8217;s for breakfast. We shared a short stack of pancakes as an appetizer, and then she got her eggs benedict while I forced down a disappointing &#8220;Blast&#8221; that seemed poorly seasoned and dry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After breakfast, we made an Amazon return at The UPS Store and then went to wash and vacuum out my car before our trip to Twin Groves for Alarie&#8217;s wedding. We still had time to kill, so we headed back home where Summer assembled the guitar stand I got from Vine. I started a load of laundry, but didn&#8217;t quite get it out of the dryer before we had to leave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The wedding was at Hillbrook Farms, which was a simple slab with a big building on top of it, right by a small overlook. It was a fantastic day for an outdoor wedding, which seemed particularly lucky since we got rain later in the evening. Summer was excited to catch up with some old coworkers while I mostly stood by and counted knots in the wooden structure. I was happy to go, and Alarie has always been friendly and greeted me by name whenever we&#8217;ve seen each other, but I just didn&#8217;t know anyone else there. The ceremony itself was short and sweet, and Moe&#8217;s catered the reception, so there was a ton of good food.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/pw\/AP1GczMUmrD8zRV9zGecByRbCdyblCJhpnpCpEJI-UWjhLq3xJjw2JiHH7jHJg8Lf_XXDn6M0ND9FR1-4WydbqxOetQ7WSK9EtmjbziW_vhpOBSlPgLREdn4eSZqbPGUaxFDwVVqIU19jRHZQs49vKRfeFJV7g=w1638-h1233-s-no-gm?authuser=0\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/pw\/AP1GczPy1pfu5PFu6hfGypzyOphKSS9k99ytqrtTOh6TXzI24H2130NXkEJFFXES0AIdQARy5hBqClVblwpfFZY3kzmjiTOOLOkkY4CaRmLECq2yAz3AxY1fL8sjLyNTf3k0zzJff2wxo2J0_rLKZ1w1vPoZuw=w1638-h1233-s-no-gm?authuser=0\" alt=\"\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the way home, Summer asked me about my favorite part of the event, and she didn&#8217;t like any of my answers. Then she said she didn&#8217;t understand how I could be so in-touch with my emotions and respond the way that I did. I didn&#8217;t mean anything negative in what I said, but I told her I was just an extra in that scene. I didn&#8217;t know anyone. I was there to support her and her friends. That escalated talk took us most of the way home, but triggered my anxiety and was a perfect illustration of why our communication is always so exhausting. I think we at least found ourselves in the same <em>book<\/em> by the time we got home, but by then I just needed a break with Muad&#8217;Dib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was starting to get dark, so the air was nice and cool and Muad&#8217;Dib wore his little headlamp. It was a good, slightly shortened run so we could visit Dad before dark. Then we made it back home for a much better evening. The good days shouldn&#8217;t be so hard, but maybe this time we&#8217;ll find someone that can help us translate. If not, at least now she has considered trying to make friends through her races.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ail7D_k0s9w\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/iNzrwh2Z2hQ?si=lus4APfJaRxu6I0G\"><em>Everything. Everywhere. All at once.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I woke up early today so I could accompany Summer to her 5k in Dover. 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